He aha ina kekahi mea e ole makemake i?

No ka mea, he mau lā ia oe e ole makemake i kekahi mea? Aia mea i makemake e hele i ka hana, hana oaeouee? Seemingly hana ... eʻauʻau kai me kou mau hoa - mai i makemake i ka a me ia ka mea! Naʻe, i loko o kēia wahi, ia mea e kahaha ko oukou naau, no ka mea, na kanaka - o ka luna 'biosocial'ōnaehana, i loko i hoʻomaka ai ma ka kela la i keia kulanui i na tausani o nā physiological a me ka noʻonoʻo' keʻano o ka hanaʻana.

Ae, weliweli i loko o ka mea, he mea ole ia, aka, e manaʻo ai 'oe makemake e mai ke kumu i ka hana, he kumukuai. No ka laʻana, kakahiaka weekday, ka wā e pono e hele i kakahiaka nui, e hele i ka hana, e kauoha ana i kou loa io manaʻo. Oe me koʻu naau a pau'ōlelo ikaika aku, akā, hooluolu mai ia ia iho me kekahi mea e like: ". Ae E hele mai ma luna, a pau no laila," A e huli mai, e e hewa fundamentally. Ka mea i 'aʻole' ole i ole makemake e hele i ka hana a me ka hele aku i unloved hana. No laila, e pakele no ka naau ke ano pili i na manao, ka hana pono e e auou caiaiai. Oiaio, he keiki oe moe ia e KoʻOlau, pono? Dreams Manu Kikaha 'Olu ua loa Hawaiʻi moku. A hiki ina ka uku e e emi:ʻaʻohe dala e ole e hoohalikeia ia i ka manao o ka manao i ke kanaka i loaʻa, hana ana i na mea e aloha.

Inā ka pahu ukana a me ka mauna o ka ipu i loko o ka lumi kuke kali ana ma na eheu no ka lōʻihi manawa, e like me kou pono e hele a puniʻaoʻao o ka lumi, huli wale no ka mea e kuai i ai, mai ka hau, ia mea - ka loa maʻamau palaualelo,ʻaʻole i ka noʻonoʻo 'kāna hana i kokoke iki e hana. E hana me ia, e hiki wale pono'ī: ua kokoke mai paha ma keia hihia, e like me ka rula, o ka makemake ia i ole.

A i 'ole paha oe e i makemake i kekahi mea, mai ka mea ia oe i k ‰ ia? Loa paha, ma hope o nā hola o ka mumulu mai lāʻoe e "hoomaha" i loko o ka poʻe o ka TV a me ka Internet hakaka. I ke kaua ana i ka "nichegonehoteniem" ka mea, i ole ke kōkua, akā, ma ka mea ku ole: waiho loihi ana kāu mau ikaika a me ka ikehu. Nolaila, a hiki ina e ole haha aku e like me ka pau ana o ka lā, e ho'āʻo e hele wale. I hooponopono, nui holo. Ia mea i pono ma hope o lōʻihi hola o repetitive hana, e hoolohe i ka mele, mai ka pâʻani pôpeku, a heluhelu i ka puke (oiai heluhelu mea maopopo leʻa i ka maikai a me ka oluolu - pono i ka kekahi manawa).

Akā, ka wahaheʻe ma hope o ka makemake ole, e kamaʻilio me kou mau hoa? He hiki e mau. No ka laʻana, kela mea keia mea o ko mākou mea nona no ka manawa me he mea e haalele i loko o lākou iho. A kamaʻilio me kanaka ma ka ia stale a wili. He mea maʻamau, a hiki ina oe - he extrovert. A ma ka ina oe - introverted, manao, a hoi hou aku ai i ke kumukuai o ia. No ka poʻe me ka manaʻoʻike hiʻona o ka 'ōlelo ia mea pinepine ka maoli hana. Kekahi e hoopii mai nei introverts mea i ka mea, loa i makemake e aole e pāʻani me ka hui a komo i loko o nui-pālākiō hanana, a me ka nui - e alakai i kaʻeleu Aloha Hawaii. Eia naʻe, ia mea,ʻaʻole e pono e hoao i kekahi mea: e like me oe e, akā, no ka mea, e alakai i ka I Aloha Hawaii e pono ia oe i ka loa hōʻoluʻolu.

Kekahi poe akamai i olelo ia ina e haha aku e like me oe e hoolohe i kou kino: wale loaʻa ia, a hana i kekahi mea. E ka lumi mea maluhia, a me oe noho ma luna o ka noho, a nana ma kekahi wahi. Ke kanawai mea i lōʻihi ke kali: i loko o 10 minuke 'oe makemake e makaʻu makemake e hana i kekahi mea.

I ka mea, a hiki apathy, i mau oi ma mua o ka hebedoma, e i pili. Ma ia hihia, ina oe e ole makemake i ka i ma ka liʻiliʻi loa o ka mahina, e mea maikaʻi, e kōkua imi mai ka psychologist, no ka mea o ka moku'āina ke hoʻomōhala i loko o ka hohonu kaumaha, mai o i ia mea i kekahi manawa paʻakikī loa.