Ia i kekahi keiki, aole ia i makemake e hoʻopaʻa haʻawina He aha e hana

He nui na makua ohumu i kā lākou mau keiki iʻike piʻi hoʻonaʻauao pilikia. Kekahi e olelo aku i ua emi loa ka luna 'kula curricula. Akā, he nui manaoio ka mea, 'o nā mea a pau e pili ana iʻike manaʻo, a me ke keiki aole makemake ole e hele i ke kula, no ka mea, ua loaʻa wale mea i pili. ʻOiai ke kula ia iho, he nui na keiki e hele hauʻoli wale nō no ka mea, o ka mea i kahi e hiki ke kamaʻilio me kā lākou mau na¯, pāʻani me ia, a i leʻaleʻa. Eia naʻe,ʻaʻohe mea i kuleana i loko o ka laweʻana iā hou ike, a, o ka papa, makemake e, e hana haʻawina hoʻihoʻi ole. Oia makua e hopohopo nei i ka mea ana i ke keiki, aole ia makemake ole e aʻo, e kākau ma o ka kona kūkā i nā keiki a me nā kula psychologists, me ka manao e kiʻi 'oihana aʻo. He aha ke ano o ke aʻoʻia e psychologists i loko o ia mau wahi, i hiki?

Mākou Pono he anamanaʻo noho

I nā mākua e ho'āʻo e lawe mai i ke keiki, e hilinaʻi a me ka oluolu kūkākūkā, e ho'āʻo e imi i ke kumu o ka pilikia. He hiki i kekahi o nā mākua ua pinepine mai la oia ia mea, aole he wahi ma ka Noho i ka puu o ka makahiki, e hoʻopaʻa haʻawina no keʻano ma i ka mea, aole ia i hana. Mai Mai manaʻo i na keiki e hoolohe mai ia iā mākou me ka mai i maopopo loa ka manaʻo o ko mākou mau olelo. Akā, ua makaʻuʻole olelo emi ka ways o na keiki, e loaa ke kula ike.

Noonoo ana i ka haumāna kaikaina

No paipai aku lehulehu psychologists e ia i ka makua o kona mau keiki i kākau inoa ma Junior kiʻekiʻe. Children o keia makahiki kamaʻilioʻana, e aʻo me ka nui kuala a me ka makemake, no ka mea, i keia makahiki, ke aʻo o ka alakaʻi o ha awina. Inā he keiki, aole ia i makemake e hoʻopaʻa haʻawina, ka mea mua oe e hana ai - me ia, e kipa i kekahi keiki psychologist. He hiki i ke kamaiki i awkward pilina me classmates i, ma laila nō kāna hana e lawelawe kekahi i na keiki a me na kumu. A, malia paha, o ka lakou makemake ole e ao e loli ai kekahi neurological mai o ka a na makua mai i ike nae.

Inā 'aʻole' oe makemake e aʻo anal

Ma na wahi a ke keiki, aole ia makemake ole i ka aʻo, o ka teenager, ka mea hiki e nui aku. Ua maa pilikia a me ka poe aku, nana no ia mea i ka mana, a me nā hihia pili i ka aloha mua. Akā, pinepine, ina he keiki, aole ia i makemake e aʻo, ka mea hiki e pili ana me kona mau hoa hou, o ka a na makua mea i maopopo ia mea he hou kamepiula ololi ole. Pehea maikaʻi e hele i loko o ia i ka kulana home 'ole? Psychologists a me nā mea aʻo i ka manao, e lawe i kekahi keiki punahele i ka haʻuki, wa kaawale, e hana ia oi kaila. Best o nā mea a pau, ina e pana aku au i me kāu keiki i kēia manawa mākua, a laila e e hiki i ka manawa e aʻo i kona pilikia e pili ana, a ke hoʻoponopono ia i ka outset mea.

General koi

Inā kāu keiki, aole ia i makemake e aʻo, a lawe mai ikamu hewa papa, mai i'āhewa aku ia ia no ka mea. Oʻoi aku, ka wā i loko o ia ke kulana, nā mākua kūkā iho kā lākou mau keiki, e hahai mai i ka hana o nā classmates. He hiki ia ia me ke aʻo pilikia lakou aloha i ke keiki ka talena. Inā, no ka laʻana, ka mea, ua he aloha kekahi i kekahi nona iho, kūpono ma ka hoailona maikai i loko o ka Lūkini 'ōlelo a me ka moʻokalaleo, lailaʻo ia e i ka pilikia a me ka hooulu ana o ka makemakika a me ke kālaikūlohea. I nā mākua Pono e maopopo i ua ole he nuiʻana kanaka kaeiiaʻi mahaloia, a me na kanaka kaulana i loaʻa iā ia i loko o ke kula e waiho palapala i ekolu. Eia hou, nā mākua ë he mähele wale i kā lākou pilikia mea ole mikanele, a me ka manawa o ka hailonaʻana o nāʻohana, kahi i ke keiki, aole ia makemake ole e aʻo. He aha e hana ma keia kulana mea, ultimately, kēlā Ho'ākāka 'ia ia iho. Akā, ia mea,ʻaʻole e pono e 'oe i ka hewa o nā kanaka ina he mea hiki ia, e pale aku ia lakou. Kēia e kōkua ma ka kukakuka me psychologists a me nā mea aʻo, e like me ka huli ana o maikaʻi kēia 'ike a me ka moʻokalaleo.