Ka awelika makahiki o nā pōkiʻi, a Pehea e pale i ka pilikia o ka ulu i

Middle kula makahiki o he loa hana hoihoi wā o ke keiki i ka ulu mai, ka mea māhunehune i manawa e hele ai i ka teenager ke kahua. Nā mamo a kēia makahiki, aia nō kekahi mau hiʻona o ka ulu ana mai. A me kekahi manawa, na makua pono mai i ike i ka mea e hana ai. I ka mea i loaʻa o kaʻike manaʻo o waena elemakule, a hiki me ka nui loa kōkua makua Makuakane me na hihia o ka adolescence o kā lākou mau keiki.

Ka awelika makahiki o nā pōkiʻi

Ka awelika makahiki o he hoʻololi pae mai ka wā kamaliʻi a hiki i adolescence. Kēia manawa pinepine ia lŘlŘ i na keiki ma waena o makahiki 12 a me 15 a me ka hiki ke hoopakele nā pōkiʻi awkward e manao ana maʻamau reorganization o ke kino a pau nā kāohi a me morally. He nui makua ike ia i loko o ka wahi loa mua ka awelika makahiki o ia hoʻi, puberty teenager. A me ke kaikamahine i kēia wā e hiki mai he uuku mua ma mua o nā keikikāne. I keia manawa aole hiki e he loli o ka noʻonoʻo equilibrium teenager, konaʻano ua hoʻololi kona palapala me na¯ o ka mea ku pono ke keka.

Kekahi mau hiʻona o ka mua

O ka hana ana, i loko o kēia wā ka mea, Ua noho pilikia hiʻona o ka papai. Ka mea, e hookipa aku i ko lākou mau manaʻo, i loa pinepine mai i converge me na manao o nā mākua. Criticality, i ka loa haʻi, e ho'ōla hele i ka hikiʻole i ke hakuloli i ka puni nānaina. A no ka mea, o ka teenager, e mau ia mai o ke kaiāulu, no ka mea, o ka ke kaiāulu kanaka, Ua mau loa ka wā ia e nema aku. Makua i loko o ka maka o ka teenager e lilo aku i kou credibility, a me keia pono e hoʻomanaʻo. Inā i ka manawa he keiki uuku ua mau hahai a me na makua a puni, e pili ana me ia, akā, e he uuku okoa. Oiaio no, ina he muli makahiki ua lawa pono ke waiho i kekahi mau alakaʻi ma luna o ka mana o ka makua, i ka awelika makahiki koi kekahi o kona make ana.

Kōkua no nā mākua

I nā mākua Pono e lawe i mooolelo i ka awelika makahiki o kou anal mea ole wale noho pilikia, akā, i imitative. Ia mea no keia mea, e ia mea oluolu ke kope i ka hana o ko lākou mau na¯. Nolaila, e makaala mai no ka poe e ae, ka poe e kokoke ana i kāu keiki. No ka mea, o kou credibility ua hoʻonāwaliwaliʻia he iki, i ke ala hoa ka hoʻopiliʻana ke alakai i ka mea i ka teenager wale haule i loko o ino poe. I loko o kēia wā, i kāu keiki i kekahi manawa, hiki pololei ole, e hoike i ko lakou Emotions a me ka manaʻo, laila mai e makau. Hawaii a me nā hiʻona o kēia hana i:

- selfishness;

- hoʻokaʻawale;

- outbursts o ka huhu;

- paakiki;

- withdrawal i loko o oneself;

- hyperactivity;

- i pulakaumaka loa alakaʻi;

-ʻano pākīkē a me ka ikaika ano o ka palapala;

- he manaʻo ano o ka hoʻoponopono-mea.

Makua mau hoomanao i ole mea ana i kāu keiki i loko o kēia wā o kona maturation aole capricious aole hoi ukiuki,ʻaʻohe pehea illogical, a i loa poorly, ka mea, 'o nā mea a pau pono maʻamau hoikeana o ka haumāna kula makahiki manawa mea. Ia mea,ʻaʻole e pono i kekahi mea, e hoʻokō i kā lākou hilinaʻi teenager, kau ultimatums. Ma ia wahi, i hiki, oe e loa paha i ia e ke oho eminence, a e alakai ai i kāu keiki i loko o ka pono a me ka pono ao ao.