Ka ike weliweli ke kōkua i ka makua o ke keiki

Young mākua i keia la ua mau ua hoomainoinoia au e ka ia pilikia. Keia pilikia, he mau interrelated Kekoa: 1) mea, e hana me ke keiki, no laila, i ole e ālai ia 'aʻe me ka hana ohua chores, a hoʻonānea, a me 2) pehea e hana ia, pela oia i i haha haalele a me ka unloved a me nā mea a pau i ke kahu manaʻoʻike pilikia. No ka hiki akamai Solomona hoʻohana i ka olelo, "ka lāʻau hahau, a me kaʻana mai i ka naauao; akā, he keiki i koe ia ia iho, lawe mai hoʻohilahila i kona makuwahine. " Ke kookoo - i kā mākou hana, akā, ina nana puni hoa a me nā hoalauna ua ike hoi, e imi i kekahi ohana kahi keiki i kāohi hoopaiia e hou pili i ko lakou mau makua, ma mua i loko o ia mau ohana ma hahau aku ua hoʻokoe 'like me ka Hope hoʻonaʻauao. Akā, ka mea, ke ole e pili ana ia i keia la. Ka mea mea i na keiki i koe ma hope o ka makua inevitably koke i "kona makuahine i ka hilahila."

A no laila, ma waena o na hihia a me na keiki pono, e nana mai oe i ka maikai no na keiki. Kēia,ʻaʻole i ka detriment o ka hana. I oe i ho'āʻo i ka hoʻohana 'ana i kekahi mea e loaʻa ai i kēia pahu hopu, e hoohuli i na keiki? Mākou invented i kekahi mea i keia la a hiki inehinei. Well ia mea no ka mea, aole ia i koi i kekahi pipiʻi a me ka manawa e hoopau ana, e hoʻomōhala ana i paʻakikī, makakū noʻonoʻo o ke keiki, a me ka makua, lawe mai kekahi i ka kekahi, e pono ike i kekahi i kekahi, a me ka hope versa. A me ka puu oi eia kekahi poe noonoo ole hana i kapaia o ", e hoohuli i na keiki."

Hoomaka e ao aku i kaʻu mau keiki a hiki i keia holoholona hihiu maikaʻi pono mai ka cradle. Primitive, akā, loa pono loa o na keiki he hana maʻalahi me gymnastics. Hana kino me ka hunahuna ai, i kapa aku ai i nā hana: "Ua gusenichka Ke nihi aʻela. Oh, pehea mākou gusenichka! "," Hahai mau eheu e hooluhi ana. He aha ka nani hahai, e like me ka mea i hiki ke kowali ae'ēheu! "," Ka sapling Ua ulu aʻe ia i luna. A, ano, i ka laau noho lanakila i ka makani. " A kokoke 'aʻole i mea i kekahi neʻe mea ole reminiscent o ka mea koʻu makuwahine i hea, no laila, hiki maikaʻi, mākou e ole ae stereotypes, e ka Haku i ka noʻonoʻo o ko mākou keiki.

I ka mea Ka he paakiki manawa i pili i ka mea e ku i ke keiki, a loaʻa oi māhele ku okoa ana ma mua loa ma mua, a me ka hoʻonui manawa no ka dramatization. O hiki e ike weliweli o ke keiki i loko o ka palapala o ka puppet hale kiʻiʻoniʻoni hana. Nānā Mea e ole e pono ai, alaila, a pau i komo. No ka laʻana, ka mea e e pono keia mau mea ma keia makahiki fingerling hale kiaka. E hele mai me sketches, he kūoʻo no ka poe mamo a keia makahiki,ʻaʻole pela paʻakikī. E ke kamaiki ae hoopaa ana i ka manamana lima o kona makuwahine, "kahikoia no" ma dolls, a me kona makuwahine wehewehe, emotionally a vividly ma mua o ka mea, Ka hana manawa, "Vanya manao e halawai me Tosha. - Hello Tosh, - wahi a Vanya. - Aw-nā '- me Tosh ".

I ka moʻolelo o ka hoalauna Vanya a me Toshi hiki ke hai hou ole kompleksuya e pili ana i ka mea i ua manao mai wale no keia, a me ka mea, ua manaʻo ka mea, ke ole he kūoʻo no laila, hoʻokahi tausani manawa. Kēia mea loa i scary-makahiki-Nalani Olds me 'oe a, e aponoia ka mea, e like me ke kanaka i loko o ka repetition o ka ua' ana.

Oe e ike i kēia wā eono mahina ma hope - o ka makahiki, e puʻe wale mai oia ia oe a hiki i ka tausani manawa hana i ka mea hookahi. I elua a ekolu makahiki o kou mau moʻolelo keaka moʻolelo keaka wale'āhihi e hiki koke ana ke ola ka mea 'ē aʻe piha. Inā makuahine a me Papai e mai i ka makakū ikehu no oe ia oe iho i ka manaʻo o kekahi mea (aole nae ia ka maʻalahi - e hoomanao i ka hele i hiki mai i keia la, no ka laʻana, a me ka hoʻouka hou aku au ia i wahi kala like 'ole), a laila, ma kā lākou hoʻolilo ana' keiki o ka mea kākau . Aʻaʻole pono keiki. Ke aloha i dramatized, no kekahi laʻana, aneane poina ia ma keia hanauna Mayakovsky poem "He aha ka maikaʻi, a me ka mea hewa."

Maikaʻi nō naʻe, ka mea "maikai" a ka mea "hewa" ka Baibala wehewehe. I ke kahua me he mea ia. I makahikiʻekolu, e hiki no i ka Loiloi i ka hana keiki. Mua a me nā manaʻo kōkua o nā mākua, a laila oe ia oe iho. Baibala Hemolele maikaʻi ma mua oʻaʻohe puke aʻo noʻonoʻoʻia mai ana, akä, o kanaka hoohaunaele. Hope, i ka wa a ke keiki i ke aʻo pehea e noonoo ai, ka mea e e hiki i ka e ke koho ma waena o "maikaʻi" a me ka "hewa." Not e hōʻike i ka mea i na ahiahi lilo me ka 'ohana, nā pāʻani a me skits no na kamalii - ka mea, mea priceless ma ka nui a me ka mea e like ai ka pomaikai manawa.