Ke kahiko Greek poe akeakamai Plato i ke kupuna o na mea he nui hana hoihoi theories. Me ke ola ana o ka mau ano o ke aloha. Ka loa nui o ia la oia i manao ai e like me ka manao i i ole pū physical attraction. Mai laila, ka mea i ua kapaia "platonic aloha".
Love, aloha
Ma a me ka nui, platonic pilina - ia mea he pololei pane ana i ka ninau: "E hiki anei i loaʻa e ke aloha mawaena o ke kane a me ka wahine?" E like me ka iʻike mau ke akamai, i nā mea a pau hoohanau ana keia malu eroticism huna sexuality. A ina lala o ka mea e ku pono ke keka, kokoke loa i ka makahiki, a ua hoʻopili loa manawalea ana mai iaʻu, e pinepine ike, laila, ma waena o ia "mea e ai ai." E pehea keia e hoʻohuoiʻia ka oiaio o ka ike. Hoole i ka Middle Ages, naita. Ka mea, e hele mai e hoomanao nani wāhine, poe hookiokio, ka sublime Mele, a i mahalo ia ka hana o na wahine. Kēia hana o ka maikaʻi wehewehe aku i ka platonic pili. Ua maikaʻi ke aloha e ola ana i loko o na naau o na mea he nui makahiki, ma a he mea ole, hoʻomaoe hou akula o physical intimacy. Kona hua'ōlelo'ālike - courtly aloha. Ke kanaka hele i ke kaua, e waiho ana i ke kumu o kona kuko ino Ua pinepine oi ma mua o hoʻokahi makahiki. Ka lede e kauoha nei, e kakali ai ia ia, a hoʻohiki ihola ua, pu me ia a me ke kanaka i hoʻohiki ai. People Ua noho malama pono ala no ka lōʻihi manawa. Ka mea, ke malama i ko lakou ku okoa ke keka ola, akā,ʻaʻohe mea i 'ae' ia e komo i loko o ko mākou mau naʻau.
Platonic ke aloha i loko o na kanaka
A i 'ole he hāpana o ka manaʻo o "platonic pilina": i ka pilina o ka nui Lūkini Classics o ko mākou moʻokalaleo Ivana Sergeevicha Turgeneva a me ka loea Palani keaka mele hoolea Poliny Viardo. Ka moʻolelo o ko lākou aloha ike ia mākou, mai ke kula. A ua hiki wale haʻohaʻo nei i ka luku nui ke ano o ka manao i mau kanaka hanai kekahi i kekahi, a me kā lākou mau manaʻo, a haawi mai ia i ka mana e ole e hele ilalo i ka banal hoʻokolokolo. O ia ka leo i ke aloha oiaio, aloha, aloha, ke alu like, ke aloha, kākoʻo. Kane Viardot, kaulana Parisian haku mele a me ka nohona activist, ua hana mai ka hailona no ka paipai 'ana i Lūkini moʻokalaleo, a, ma ka hana, o ka hanaia'na o Turgenev. O ka holo ana, ia uaʻaʻohe malu i ka mea iʻike piʻi mea kākau i Pauline no ia ia. Akā, kā lākou platonic pilina - o keʻano o ka pololei a me ka pono, a me Louis Viardot me ka olioli a me ka oluolu i Ivan Sergeyevich i loko o koʻu hale, kākoʻo iā ia i loko o pilikia minute o ke ola, i mai la i ka lālā o kona 'ohana. A me Turgenev i i hoopunipuni i kona mea i hilinaʻi ai! Children Viardot aole ia i manao aneane kā lākou poʻe keiki. E ke kaikamahine o ka mea kākau, hanau o ke kua'āina serf, ua mahuahua a ua ho'ālaʻia i loko o ka ohana Farani - i loko o ko lākou'āina, i loko o Rusia, ka mea, ua illegitimate! O ia ka leo i ka platonic aloha he wahine! A hui pu iho la ka mea pilikino, aikane oe manaʻo nei ke me ka hiki, e hana i hoa! Olelo ana e pili ana i mōʻaukala na kii, i kekahi hiki ole hoopoina Marina Tsvetaeva a me kona "puke i loko o ke kumu holoholomoku" me ka German haku mele Rilke a me Russian - Boris Pasternak. Rilke a Tsvetaeva aole halawai i loko o kanaka. Pasternak, hālāwai akula ia me he mau makahiki ma hope, ma hope o kaʻeleu i kākau 'ōlelo. Akā,ʻo aloha ardently a passionately - pehea la e hiki ai ia aloha haku mele hoa o ka haku mele, ka brightest talena i loko o kona hoike ana. Ma nā mea a pau o keia mea, Ua oi ma mua o kekahi mea e ae aloha kane, Sergeem Efronom, a hahao i loko o ke ola, e mea e me ia. Nolaila, platonic manaʻo - i kinship, o ka olioli o ka palapala, intimacy o ka pā lani a.
Aloha oiaio i ka moʻokalaleo
Mākou moʻokalaleo - nui moʻokalaleo. Inā 'oe e hoala i ke kahe ana o ka maikaʻi, kiʻekiʻe-aloha i e ole ālai ia' aʻe i manawa, aole loihi, e hele mai, e hoomanao i ke kaʻao "Garnet kupee" Kuprin. Small telephonist yolks e e hiki i nui ka uhane feat. No na makahiki,ʻo ia ke aloha i ka Princess Vera - me ka hoʻomaoe hou akulaʻo o ka mā lama, me kekahi hoopii a me nā kuleana. Ua aloha a me ka hoʻomana - e like Madonna, me he haipule. Eia ka mea, o, ka mea kiʻekiʻe loa hoike ana o ka manaʻo! Eia ka mea, he - he oiaio platonic pili!