"E makemake mai iaʻu!" A i 'ole, e olelo aku i ka wahine

Ma ka Honua ma, he mau miliona o kanaka, a me ka mea, i nā mea a pauʻokoʻa. Kekahi ikaika, pakiko-ikaika, ka hoʻoponopono-lawa. Kekahi poe - uku, hilahila, hopohopo. Akā, a pau, me ka a koe, makemake ia e maopopo, aloha, hauʻoli.

Pono he mau makahiki aku nei, he ae hoolei ka launa pū a me ka ulu ana o pili i kekahi mea o ke kane, na kaikamahine, ua hookauiaʻe la i ka i ahonui, a kali no ka ia i ka hoʻolohe. Akā, me ka Hekikai o ka feminization o ke kaiāulu e lele koke i kēlā a me kiʻi kekahiʻokoʻa. Ae, na kaikamahine a pau e like me ka manawa e nana aku i ko lakou koho laʻelaʻe 'ia, e kaniʻuhū ana mai e pili ana ia mau mea, nui, e lawe i kona mua "makua" pōkē pua. Akā, ua lilo ka mea, ua nui aku kona pragmatic a me sensible o kona na¯ nehinei, aʻo nā mea a pau ma luna o ka hilinai aku maluna o lakou iho, e ala i loko o ke ola o kona mau lima, a me ka hiki ana i kaʻae compliments no ka haawi.

Ke aloha o superiority o na kanaka maluna iho o na wahine hoi irrevocably muli i loko o ka i hala iho nei. A no ka mea, na kanaka i hoao mai e loaa i ka lede, kona noonoo mea e mau loa ana me holomua. E ku nei ma ke alo o ke kanaka hou o ka hana me ka nui unknowns: pehea e hele mai, e ike i ke kaikamahine? A ina wale, e hālāwai meʻoe! A pehea e hele e like kamailio i ke kaikamahine, a no mea, ma kahi e, ma lalo o ka noho ana? He aha, e hele mai i keia? Inā mua i ka 90 hihia mai o 100 ke kanaka hiki eʻoiaʻiʻo ia, ma muli o kana mau olelo i ke kaikamahine o sweetly paʻipaʻi lihilihi, a enthusiastically hoʻolohe i kana kela olelo (oi loa aku hoi ma ka wahi, kahi a ke kane mea he maopopo shortage a me na kahu lio me ka hoʻokoe '), akā, e noho nei kekahi mau mea . Man hiki maʻalahi "otshit" me ka pono a hiki i ka lua o ka hoao i familiarity.

No laila, i ke kulana: He me ia. He like ia. A i 'ole, ma ka liʻiliʻi loa, oia hoi pili. Pehea e kamailio ai i ke kaikamahine? Eia mākou ke hāʻawi i kekahi mau nā mea e hiki wale mai.

Ka mua ha i - ke alo, he pono ole hoalauna

Eia, a pau ka puni hoʻi: e manao ma ka mua, e noi i ka ike, a hooku iho la i kekahi i kekahi. Man pono kekahi i kā mākou o ka 'elele, openness, he kupono no e noho ai, no laila, i ole, e haawi mai i ko lakou iho pīhoihoi. A me ka papa kuhikuhiE ana - o ka minoʻaka. 'Aʻole he grin,ʻaʻole he hawawa, a me ko mākou hopohopo giggling a me ka launa, ano minoʻaka. I keiki, he kanaka i kekahi i kekahi, uhai i ka hau o ka mokuāhana, mistrust a me ka palaka. I ka mana o ke kanaka minoʻaka Exupery i kākau - hoomanao i kana mau olelo!

Ka lua o ha i - ke anaina Improvisation

O ka hana ana, ma keia hihia, loaʻa nō kekahi mau pilikia, akā, i ke kaʻina ka oi hana hoihoi a me kaʻono ma mua o lanakila hopena.

No laila, i ke kanaka'ōpiopio i ka maka ma luna o ke kaikamahine. He ehuehu o kona mau manawa ma kekahi wahi, a me kēlā me kēia manawa hoomaka kuʻi ana ma ka loa kūikawā pāpana, e like himeni o kona naau, " 'O kēia mea, keia mea ia, ia mea ia!" Pehea e kamailio i ka wahine i loko o keia kulana? Koho kai.

Inā ke kanaka lawa noa manawa, e hiki pāʻani Makäkiu - no kekahi manawa, e kiai i ka wae hoʻokahi: a pau āna e ke ola, haʻawina a me na hana, i ala e hele ai e lawe aku, a hele ikona, i mea lawe, no ka laʻana, no nā huahana. A laila, no kekahi laʻana, i loko o ka hale kūʻai, e hiki, ke hoohalua nei nona, e hele mai me ina ma ka iho, a me ka noi aku e pili ana i kekahi huahana e ua, ua ike ia e ike. E loa kolohe ole nae, oia o Tilly i kona, akā, e kona olelo ana. Ma muli o, e hiki ke aloha aku nei au, olelo ikaika e pili ana i ka weheweheʻana a me kaʻike o ke kaikamahine, a no ka hoʻomau hou hoalauna, e ninau hou aku i mea e pili ana i nā huahana mohai e kōkua - e lawe mai i ke kūʻai, a no laila, ma luna o D. Ka papa kuhikuhiE mea -. Unobtrusive,ʻaʻohe fuss. Hele maoli ai, a me ke kaikamahine i loko o ke kaiāulu kanaka, keia kanaka, e haha noa, nanea wale, maʻalahi.

Inā he mea i kekahi mea, akā, e makemake i ka iki Awaits, brighten i ka loneliness - nā halawai me na kaikamahine ma keia hihia? A ma laila nō kekahi ideas. Kupono lehulehu amo. He, Eia naʻe, ua ana manawa, akā, i ka mau keakea nei mea, a hiki ma ka lima. Ma lalo o kaʻaʻahu o ka aukukū mai ke malie hoʻokokoke i ka malihini, e kākoʻo ia me ka Haalulu iho ma luna o potholes, ina e hele aku ai e ku ana, a kaʻawale mai obsessive ohua ina mea e noho. Ka ike ana i ka "mea" e hele ana e hele - aku, e lulu lima, e kōkua kiʻi. Ma ke alanui, he wahi kahaha ia oe i kekahi huina holo ana, a laila, - e hele i kekahi oiai e haule ana, ana i ke kahua no ka maʻalahi kamaʻilio. E pono e ho'āʻo e hooluolu i ke kanaka hele i ka ihe. E hai mai oe i ka mea uuku e pili ana ia lakou iho i loko o ka Kāpena Barber ano, akā,ʻaʻole overdoing ole e hana i ka manaʻo o ka levity. E noi i kekahi lede e pili ana ia ia, e ho'āʻo e aʻo i ka pono, ho'āʻo iho au i. Inā manawa pela, kono i loko o ka cafe, hau kalima kanaka Farani a me ka mea inu. A haʻalele wale i ka wa a kaʻoiaʻiʻo o ia iho i ke kanaka,ʻo ia na lau i ka manaʻo maikaʻi. Ua haawi mai la ia ia i ke kelepona, a me ka mea paaʻae e halawai.

Eia hoi, i ke kolu o ka ala e ike, malia paha, o ka loa a me ka ho'āmana Popular pono manawa - ma ka Internet, ka launa pū lawelawe, kūpono nā papa hoʻolaha, Usenet, eʻauʻau kai. A laila, e ole i ke i häkökö me pehea e kamailio i kekahi kaikamahine - palapala i loko o ka mea ulana pukapuka erases ka māhele a me ka manaʻoʻike palena, a mau hiʻohiʻona nō interlocutors e ke hakuloli, hele a maʻa i kekahi i kekahi ma mua o ka nui o ke kino poe Setoiko. I ka papa kuhikuhiE ano o keia aloha - oiaio, no ka mea, ina o ka hālāwai ua hoʻopaʻa 'ia ma ke maoli honua, ke kanaka, a me ka kaikamahine koke hoʻomaopopo i kela a me keia o ia ho, a me ka hooholo no lakou iho i ka hopena o ko lākouʻike kamepiula aloha.