He aha ka mea e hele mai ana mai? Hele mai: i ka waiwai

Ke moe kipi i na kanaka a me na wahine i ka ku okoa ana o ke koho ana o ka moe hoa. Ua alakai aku ai i ka haku o ia-ke keka Leomakana. I ka Ia manawa, ua hou manaÿo, e pili ana i kekahi, ao ke ano o ke ola a me ka hana ana o kanaka me ka okoa 'īnea i moe. E like me ka rula, i kēia mau'ōlelo a haole ka molekumu o, a me ka mea ole loa i ike ia kanaka, mamao aku, mai ka "uliuli" a me "a pink" theme like.

No ka laʻana, ole a pau i ike i ka mea e hele mai ana mai. Pehea ka mea okoa, mai ka like manaʻo o "outing". Manawa, ma kekahi mau pōʻai ka mea, ua pinepine ia olelo, a hiki i kona Holiday iho o ka makahiki. Akā, mua na mea mua.

He aha ka mea e hele mai ana mai?

Kēia hua'ōlelo ua aie mai o ka olelo Beritania a me ka unuhi 'ana "ke kaikoeke", "mai o ke keena mehameha." Male paha, he wahine, ke akea, a, loa importantly, makemake hoʻokomo lākou moe kohoʻia ai lākou e pili ana i ka hoohanau ê, e hana ana i ka hana i oleloia e like hele mai. E like me ka rula, o ka ho'ākāka 'ana noi ma ka pili ana i ka anal, Māhū, bisexual a me ka transgender kanaka (abbreviated like me ka pae ana o na kanaka haawiia i LGBT) i hoike aku au ae aku i kā lākou' īnea i koho ai i ko lakou mau kino, aole ia e like me kā lākou noʻonoʻo kulana.

Outing - ka mea, ua hoi akea hōʻike i ka oiaio o ka hana naʻee kino ola, akā, na mea e ae ma ke ano o ka ikaika, e ku ei ka makemake o ke homosexual. Keia ua ana hana eʻae like hoʻokuʻu ma kahai i ka ke kanaka e hao i kona kaulana, 'oihana, kanaka ka kino i ka hoʻololi' ana i ia mea, no ka mea, ma kela aina he mau homophobic. ʻO i loko o kēia hui,ʻaʻole kanaka a pau i makemake ma ka naʻau, e wehe i ka puka no kona lumi moe, akā, aia no kekahi mea i oi loa māʻona i ka lehulehu e hele mai ana mai e huki hoʻolohe iā lākou iho, a no ka loaa keu hiʻona, i he heterosexual kanaka. O kŰia ka loa, he pono ole ma ka hōʻike hana.

A wahi o ka mōʻaukala kūʻiʻo

Ka mua manawa ke kumu o manaʻo Cuming-mai manao i ka 1869. Au i ka mea i German loio a me kanaka moʻolelo nūpepa, ka pale 'ana i ka pono a me ka pono o nā' ê, Karl Genrih Ulrihs. He ua no ka manao e ina oe e makemake, e e hiki, e pono ai i ka leo nui haʻi iho, ma ka hele-mai. Ka manaʻo nui o keia kanawai, e like me na kēia kanaka Kelemānia, nui wehe i ka homosexual hiki i ka oi aku hopena ma luna o nā kanaka, a me ka mana e hana. Ka mua lehulehu nui kanaka i ua ole makau i ka hai aku i ka oiaio e pili ana ia ia iho, ua ka American haku mele Robert Honolulu. He Ua'ōlelo hele mai, a koke iho la i oki ia mai ka poe kaua. Ma hope o ia, i loko o ka Magazine, i mai la oia ia ia ma ka aina a puni ka honua e hoʻokaumaha hapa.

Ma ka hapalua like-20th kenekulia, i ka manaʻo o "hele mai" ma muli o i ka psychologist Evelyn Hooker, ka mea i laʻa ka hailonaʻana o kāna hana i ka Māhū kaiāulu këia, mea hou i ka maopopo leʻa i hele ma ka 'epekema terminology.

Nui Cuming-mai

Pono uku panai i loko o ke ola ia lŘlŘ wale i ka wa a ke kanaka e ola ana i loko o ka lokahi ole wale me lakou iho akā, no hoi me ka lehulehu. E hoʻokō i kēia, e pono e loaʻa i ka ikaika, e hoike aku au hōʻike aku i ko lakou moe mau koho. Inā he kāne paha he wahine io i Māhū, maliu ka mea, i kēia mea, a Ua ikaika i loko o kou koho, oe E ole hūnā ia, camouflage heterosexual ka pili ma, i mare e ku ei ko lakou makemake no ka pono o ke kaiāulu. Kēia i ka hopena maikaʻi ia ma ka noʻonoʻo moku'āina o ke kanaka. Here hiki wale kōkua e hele mai ana mai. I ka waiwai o ka mea hewa i ka maikaʻi hopena ma luna o ka moku'āina, naʻau i loko, ke hele mai i ka lōʻihi-kakali ke ola.

'O kēia ka hihia o ka naʻauao ma luna o ka aoao o ka hoolohe. Akā, ma ka hana, keia hana e mau. I mea no ke aha la he mea he hailona o moʻokalaleo ma luna o ke kumuhana "He aha ka mea i hele mai mai" pehea a me ka wā e hana ia maikaʻi. Kekahi o ka loa loa-ike e manual, i kākauʻia e ka hui Amelika "i nā mākua, 'ohana a me nā hoa o gays a me anal."

Ke kaʻina hana o ka hoʻomaopopo pono

Cuming-i waho - he luna 'nunui-ʻanuʻu keʻano o ka hanaʻana. Psychologists kūkā iho ia i nā wehe i nā mea a pau i ko lakou moe kohoʻia, e hoʻomaka ana kaʻoi loa me ka pili hoaloha a 'ohana me ka mea a ka mea mahana, ikaika, paulele ana pili. Pinepine ia ka hana i kanaka ole-kuʻuna ike a pau kona nā hoapili a me nā hoa, akā, mai i ike kokoke hoahanau. I kekahi manawa, hai aku i ka malihini ka hiki pono ma mua o kona. Kekahi noiʻi, i laʻa, Cuming-mai, a me ka nui openness o ka ke kanaka i ka hui, ua hoike ia ka emi he kanaka hūnā iā ia mai na mea e ae, oia ka mea, i ka emi i ka moe, ko mākou hopohopo, hopohopo.

Kuokoa ana o na makua

Kekahi o ka loa pilikia kahua o ka hoʻonaʻauao Cuming-mai ua manaoia e e ike i ke alo o ko lākou mau makua. Lakou mea e hiki ke loaa ia lakou i ka ike pololei me ka naʻauao. I nā mākua e hoohikilele au ia e aʻo i kā lākou mau keiki mea,ʻaʻole e like a pau e ae. Ka mea, Pono manawa, a kōkua mai i ka psychologist. Ka hapanui o nā mākua hōʻole, eʻae i kēia mea, e hoopai aku ai na keiki, kāpae'ōlelo, e kiolaʻia mai o ka hale, e haawi ia lakou i. Kekahi i kekahi manawa ho'āʻo nei e pale ia ai kekahi i kamaʻilio ma ka 'īnea i kumuhana apau loa, me ka manaoio aku i keia mea lapuwale a pau, makahiki, e lilo aku, a ina oe e e kālele ana ma luna o keia no, ka mea a pau e hele ma iho.

Other makua seriously noonoo homosexuality i ka maʻi, hoʻomaka e pono kā lākou mau keiki i ke kōkua o reparative Inc. A pau kēia mau hana o ka makuwahine, a me nā mākua e ma o na la ino nui i ka manao i ke keiki i ka, escalate wale ke kulana.

2013 - ka makahiki Cuming-mai

ma Okatoba 11, o ka kūhelu lā ka wā a pau e hoomanao mea i hele mai, e like me, e makaala oukou i ka lehulehu ma nā wahi o ka ole wale hoa a me nā hoahānau, akā, i ka nui kaulana kanaka, mai ka weliweli. Mai ka makahiki i ka makahiki o ka helu o LGBT nā loea kālai'āina, hoʻokani pila, 'âlapa a me nā mea hana keaka, i Hōʻike i kanaka, ua emi a emi makau ka hoʻoponopono kanaka ka o, a me ka non-kuʻuna i waeʻia ua lilo i ke kūmau. He maluhia ke olelo aku nei au i ka 2013 i ole kaupalena i kekahi auina la confessions, hiki ia i ka 365. E hai mai oe i ka mea, 'o ka impossibility, o ko lākou nunui helu, akā, i ka i ka loa mua mai a me ka leo nui, e hea ae ana:

1. Dzhodi Foster i ia e hele mai i loko o ka hoʻokolokolo i nāʻana i ma luna o kona Golden poepoe honua.
2. 'Amelika Mea Keaka Wentworth Miller kūkala i kona homosexuality i loko o ka palapala o ka hoole ana, e hele mai i Rusia, e like me ka mea, ua nui homophobes.
3. Pelekāne,ʻo kekahi poʻe Tom Daley i kekahi wikiō me kona hooiaio ana, a kau aku ia ma luna o ka Internet.
4. Junior Mea Keaka a me ka hoolea Victor Garber i ke komo ana oia mea Māhū a me ka mea i loko o ka pilina me ke kanaka no 14 makahiki.
5. NBA basketball pôpeku Dzheyson Kollinz, ka mea i hooholo ia e pono i ka e pono i na kanaka a pau.
6. Philippine mea hoolea Charris.
7. Robbi Rodzhers mai la oia ia mea, ua Māhū, a ua hoʻomaha loa i ka pôpeku.
8. Ipelana Mea Keaka Endryu Skott, oki iho la i ka noiʻi i Lūkini 'ōlelo i loko o Putin ka olelo VV ma hopeʻo ia i ke kānāwai homophobic.
9. Kumu o ka psychiatry Dinesh protuberance.
10. Skater Brian Boitano.