No ke aha la e mehameha mea maikai no ola: 5 mau manao

I ka lehulehu, he mea i koi aku ia i hookahi kanaka manao poino poʻe i kipakuʻia. Akā, he psychologist ma ke Kulanui o Kaleponi ma Santa Barbara Bella Depaulo fundamentally kū'ē'ē 'me keia olelo. No ka mea, o kona loa makua ola (a e Bella, 63 makahiki),ʻo iaʻaʻole nova pöʻino, a he mea la aole i mare, a maiʻaʻohe keiki. Over 10 makahiki, i ke akamai i ka hoʻopaʻa 'ana o ka manaʻoʻike a me ka physical pomaikai o ka mehameha loa. Iloko o keia manawa, Dr. DePaulo hiki ke kālailai i nā hualoaʻa o ka oi ma mua o 800 akeakamai haʻawina ma luna o ke kumuhana. E aʻo no ke aha la loneliness - ka mea maikai no kanaka.

More nui kaiapili ulana pukapuka,

He nui nā kanaka kuhihewa manaoio i mare Leomakana i oi mau hoa ma mua i loko o singletons. Eia naʻe, ma muli o ana helu ikepili, he lala lakou nohona ulana pukapuka, e like me ka mare ole i pono i ka ia. Kēia pono i loaʻa i loko o 2015 na sociologists Natalie Sarkisyan a me Naomi Gerstel, ka poe i kii mai i ka holoholona ano kamailio mawaena o kanaka makua Amelika Singles a me ka mare kanaka. E like me ka hopena, ka mea i loaʻa i ka mea hookahi loa pinepine manawalea ana mai iaʻu me ko lakou mau hoa, hoahanau, na hoalauna, a me ka pono hoalauna. Ka mea, e makemake e hōʻike i hiki a pau kōkua i na lala o ko lākou nui kaiapili i ulanaʻia.

Ma ka kekahi lima, i ka wa a ke kanaka hookahi ma laila nō kekahi pilikia, na kanaka ka poe ana i kokua hookahi, e hana i kona ala hoʻi ka anu u. Ma nā hua'ōlelo, ka hookahi mea no ka ikaika ano o ke kuʻekuʻe aku, a kokua e ola mahope aku o ka pilikia ana. Ua akamai loa, i loneliness maoli i ka helu o ka lawelawe 'ana ma loko o nā kānaka a me nā wāhine, nānā' ole o ka makahiki kona 'ilikai a moʻomeheu Hawaiʻi mau kaʻao.

Ke kuko no ka physical ka hoʻonaʻauao

Keia kilo i kekahi oiaio: he nui Leomakana, e legitimize i ka pilina, "e mālie iho" a hou nana ma hope o lakou iho. Ma ka liʻiliʻi loa, i ka wa e hele ai i ka hele ana i ka hale haʻuki, ia mea he pono hoounauna, e hooikaika ola, ka mea, o ka hope o ka makakoho papa. I ka nana aku i ka noiʻi i nāʻano a oi aku mamua o 13.000 kanaka a me na wahine kahiko, 18 a hiki i 64 makahiki, ua 'ike akula' epekema i kēkelē pana aku au i nui hola no hebedoma ma ka papa i loko o ka hale haʻuki. Kekahi hana hoihoi like i mālama 'ia ma 2015 maʻEulopa. A hiki aku i ka noiʻi hoohalikeia ke kino ahakanaka indexes 4.500 kanaka mai ka eiwaʻEulopa aina e, ka mea i loaʻa i ka mea hookahi awelika o 2,27 kilograms māmā ma mua o kā lākou mare nā mea i paneʻia.

kanaka ulu

KālailaiʻIkepili o nāʻohana a me nā hale o lahui study hōʻike i mehameha kanaka nui ihola i ka ulu pilikino. Iwaena o na mea e ae, na nā mea i paneʻia koho i ke kēia mau māmala'ōlelo e hōʻike ana:

• Life no iaʻu - ia mea he ana kaʻina o ke akamai, hoʻololi, a me ka ulu 'oihana.
• He nui ia mau i ka hou ka hoao ana e ho'āʻo mai iaʻu, au i ka manawa e hoʻololi i ka pokole o ka puni honua.

Singles 'aelike a me kēia mau māmala'ōlelo e hōʻike ana, oiai mare kanaka i maalo ae ia ma.

Ma hope o ka mare kanaka e emi lokomaikaʻi

Kekahi aupuni Luna ana i mālama 'ia i loko o ka United States ma nā kahua o ka hoʻonaʻauao: mua, i loko o ka manawa mai ka 1987 a hiki i 1988, a laila, hou elima makahiki ma hope. Bella Depaulo ua kālailai i nā ikepili a me ka ike i ka mare nā mea i paneʻia i emi makemake e hāʻawi'ai'ē aku i ke kālā i ka hoa, like me ka poe i ole i puunaue iho la lakou i ke ku okoa ana. It E e kaulana ia mau mea, ua ulu pili wale i na kanaka. Penei, o ka awelika lone Amelika lends kona mau hoa a me ka hanauna i loko o 1875 dala oi ma mua o ke mare ke kanaka. Akā, e pono ke kuai i kekahi kanaka, e oki mare i kona lokomaikaʻi hou punohu kokoke i ka kekahi palapala kiʻi (i ka 1275 dala).

Ke akamai manao: "I loko nō o ka mea i ka noho male i mareia, i kekahi mau kumu o ka makahiki, ka mea, ua i lewa i loko o lākou ka lokomaikaʻi. Akä naÿe, mare kanaka i emi makemake e kaʻana like i ko lakou waiwai a me kou mau hoa a me ka hanauna. Oe hiki ole ke olelo e pili ana i ka mehameha, ua nui ka makemake e haawi aku i ke kālā i ka hoaie, me hoʻokahi wale nō kumu o ka makahiki. "

Ia e pōmaikaʻi ai no ka noʻonoʻo '

Kino Emmi Morin hoʻike ia loneliness i ka helu o ka pomaikai no ka noʻonoʻo '. Ua e kōkua nō hoʻiʻoe e hoʻomāhuahua ai hou, a makakū kanaka. Hana oe i oi noa manawa, a e hiki ke lilo aku i kona manao. Experience ua hoike ia ka hapanui poʻe i hoʻolaʻaʻia lā i kēia manawa, e kiʻi i ike iho maikaʻi. Kēia mau mea, ua ulu hoʻokūpaʻa i nā loina o nā psychologists ka poe i hui loneliness me ke ano o ke ku okoa ana, holo, ka hoʻoulu. No ka laʻana, Artists pinepine i hope, e ho okumu i kou aʻe masterpiece.