Transitional makahiki. Pehea paʻakikī ka mea, o!

O nehinei, e kali ana no ka hanau ana o ke keiki, ua oe i manao e pili ana pehea e ulu, i hoomakaukauiaʻi ia ia i loko o ka Mahope aku nei hoi, manao iho la ia ua makaukau e hana nā mea a pau e hiki no ia ia ka mea. Ke keiki i hanau, au nui mai, a me ka manawa o ka keiki inehinei i mai la ia ia no ka i kona iho manao, mea, aole ia e pono'ōlelo aʻo, a me kekahi manawa na makua mea,ʻaʻole hiki ke maopopo i ka hanaia, a pehea e kōkua i ke keiki kakou nana. Akā maoli, e ka manawa, i ka wa a ke keiki mea ole "pēpē kIʻi," akā,ʻaʻole naʻe "hahai". Ua hele mai la ka awkward makahiki.

Ae, manawa lele koke. Ke keiki komo adulthood, a ma ke ala a hiki i keia ola oia i kekahi mea ia mea,ʻaʻole makaukau akā, e loaʻa, akā, i nā rula o ke konane e e mākua nō i. No ia mea, pehea la pilikia, na makua pono ia no lākou hua luna hoʻi i ke kōkua a me ke kākoʻo i kēia pilikia manawa.

Ka wā keiki komo puberty, aole lakou e lauwili ole wale kāohi, aia no he loli o ka ike paka i a me ka pokole o ke ao nei. Ka meaola ulu, he mea he kaʻina hana o ka puberty loli aʻe psyche. Mai ka mea ia a pau nā loli hiki koke lawa, ka ko mākou hopohopo nenoaiu mea susceptible i ka overload, i nanaina aku, a me ka pinepine iʻano pākīkē i ke keiki. Ma puberty aia no he kokololio kaʻina hana kūpono 'ana o kekahi mau hormones i kekahi kumu o ka pāpā ikaika i nā hoʻololi physiological a pau.

Puberty i keikikane ma kekahi paha mau makahiki kaʻina kānāwai ma hope ma mua o na kaikamahine, mau mai ka eha a hiki i elima makahiki, a ua nui aku kona hana a pele. Ua lilo ia i kekahi 'likeʻole ma waena o ia i loko o 12-13 makahiki. Puberty i kaikamahine hiki mai ma hope o nā makahiki ma mua o keiki, holo mālie a me ka welau koke.

I ka loa hoʻomaka o ka hoʻololi-makahiki opiopio e hoomaka ana e hoike mai i ke ano kāna moʻolelo ka hoʻomaopop 'ana i ia lākou ke keka. ʻOiai puberty i loko o nā keiki kāne, a 'aʻole i maopopo palena kaikamahine mai ka 10 makahiki a hiki i 17 makahiki, psychologists a me na kumu i kapa aku ai i ka malumalu makahiki, like no ka mahuahua ole emi ana i loko o ke au. Puberty hiki ke maheleia i ekolu kahua o ka hoʻonaʻauao.

Ka mua ke kahua (kakahiaka adolescence) - keia mea i ka wā o ke kino a me ka manao, e hoomakaukau ana no ka mea hou mai ana mai. Ka lua o ke kahua (puberty) - loa awkward makahiki. Ke kolu o ka manawa (opiopio nā mākua) - postpubertatnom ka wā pau ka physiological a me ka manaʻoʻike? Ieoaeunoai. A hiki i ka hopena a pau na keʻano o ka hanaʻana, a me ka awkward makahiki e hookokoke aku ana ma ka pau 'ana, he mea moe haʻawina a me ka ulu hoihoi i loko o ka ku pono ke keka.

Ma waho aʻeo ia loli i loko o ka mawaho, hoʻololi hana a me ke ano. Ke keiki i manene, hawawa koʻu, hypochondriac a me categorical, ua make pinepine hoʻopaʻapaʻa no kekahi manawa. Hormonal kēia i loko o ke kino o ka teenager kumu mea naʻau instability a me ka manaʻoʻike pilikia e ho ololi i ka physical moku'āina.

I kekahi manawa i ka wa a ke keiki ulu mai, he mea paakiki kekahi e hoʻokele i ka hoʻololi ike maopopo, i ka papa kuhikuhi hana o na makua - e ia a puni, a kōkua ola i ka hua o nā mea a pau na hihia a me ka palena haʻahaʻa poho nā no ke keiki, a no ka 'ohana me ka a pau.