E ho'āʻo ai no nā pōkiʻi - he ala nui, e lanakila i ka hihia o ka hoʻololi au

Ua Ua manaoio ia adolescence, pinepine haawiia keia i like me ka malumalu wā - ka loa pilikia. Kēia mea,ʻaʻole kahaha ko oukou naau. Ma hope o kokololio metamorphosis ma kaʻaneʻane na wahi o ke ola mea hou he keiki akā,ʻaʻole naʻe he kanaka makua. Ua hoʻomaka puberty, ka mua manaʻo o ka moe ano, ma ka meaola kupikipikio hormonal ino. Akā,ʻaʻole wale i ke kino - mea naʻau kāʻei kua lilo loa ka poe, he mea uunu nui, restlessness, excessive pā lonoaʻili a me ka hoʻonawaiwali. A me ka hoao ana e lilo kona iho, 'ē aʻe ma mua o ka makua, manao, kamaʻilioʻana i ia lā ola.

hiki ole i kēia mau loli pili i ka hana a me ka pokole o ke ao nei, a me ka makemake i ka teenager. Nolaila, i ke ano manawa o ka naau naʻau i loko, a me kekahi manawa - kaumaha, manaʻo o ka he pepehi anaʻia iā iho 'ano, rejection o kona hou helehelena, makau o ua hookaeia ma kā lākou mau na¯, nele o ka ukupanee ma ka hoʻonaʻauao, a me ka makemake e hoʻike ia iho,ʻaʻole e mau ana maliuia aoao. Mau eiiiiiaiou tipping wahi i e hoike i ka uuku oi ole he wahi emi, akā, ma kekahi hihia, ka mea, he mau manawa. Ua huli mai ia i ka wā kamaliʻi - ka maikaʻi manawa o ke ola, ka wanaao, - ma ka mea, he pouli, a kaumaha me na instability au? O ka holo ana, ia mea ole. Aia ka he ao alohilohi iʻaoʻao o ke dala - ka 'oluʻolu, ao ke ano, e like me ka freshness a me ka olinolino o nā manaʻo a me nā Emotions, "nezamylennost" pokole, hauoli anticipation o ka pomaikai.

Pehea e hana me kaʻaoʻao hopena o adolescent maturation? O ka holo ana, i ka maikaʻi koho - ia mea i ke kipa i ke akamai psychologist ka mea, ma hope o Noho i ka mea e ho'āʻo ai no loira, e kōkua i ke kanaka'ōpiopio, a me ua wahine e maopopo ia lakou iho, a me ka honua, e hookupaa aku i ka kaʻina hana o keʻano o me kā lākou na¯, a i wae mua. Akā, e like me ka hana pono E hoike mai, he mau loa mau keikikāne a me nā kaikamāhine, ka poe i makaukau, e hele aku ma luna o kou manawa i oleloia ai iho me ka hoʻomalu. No ka hapanui o nā pōkiʻi, he kipa i ka psychologist - ke komo ana o ka abnormality, a me keia wahi aku - inferiority. 'Aʻole i maikaʻi na mea a me kela poe keiki kanaka, o kona mau makua i loko o ka'ōlelo aʻo kūpono. Ma na hoopii, koke hoala i ka uhane o Meriba, a me ka rejection o kekahi, a me ka hoao ana loa hala ole i 'ōlelo.

Ma keia hihia, o kela mea keia teenager nele ano pono'ī. Ike a me kaʻae oe iho a me nā mea a pau i ka pono a me ka keakea - 'aneʻi o ka pāʻoihana o na wahi lulu nīnūnē e ala mai i ka hoʻololi wā. No keia mea, he mau 'oihana a me ka aeoaeuneiai puke kātuna e ho'āʻo ai i ka papai, ka poe hiki ke hele ma luna o lākou iho.

Mea maʻa mau, ka mea mua i loko o nā lima o nā kānaka uʻi, a me na wahine Puhi iho komo i ka hoao ana, a hoʻoholo i ke 'ano o ka temperament. Ua makemake mea i na mea a pau i maikai - sanguine, melancholic, phlegmatic a me ka heahea hoʻouka kekahi. Eia wale i waena o nā pōkiʻi, he mea he malihini hoomana ana: sanguine wale - ka "maikai" 'ano o ka temperament, a pau na mea e ae -ʻaʻole i pinepine māʻona i ka hanauna pokii, mai i hoʻopili like i ka maikaʻi kiʻi, a i kūkuluʻia i loko o ko lakou hoomaopopo ana. No laila, i loko o ia ke kulana, ka hana ana o na makua - mālie e wehewehe i kēlā me kēia temperament i loko o kona mau pono.

Loa he hoihoi 'hoao no loira ma ka wehewehena o keʻano. No ka laʻana, ka palapala ninaninau Shmisheka nona ma hoomaopopo ana i ka accentuation,ʻo ia hoʻi,ʻo ka papa kuhikuhi a me inclinations, ano. Here, hoi, he mea uuku pitfalls. Ka mea i ka accentuated ke kanaka me - kumumanaʻo mea ma luna o ka verge o ke kūmau a me ka pathology. Akā, i kēia 'aʻole i manaʻo i ke kanaka me ka kekahi accentuation, mentally maʻi a maʻi koke. Pono e lohe i kekahi mau hiʻona o ke ano, a ua hāʻawiʻia iā lākou, e hoʻoikaika i ko lakou mea e like ai o ke ola. I mea i wehewehe e lohe i ka loira, mai ko lākou mau mākua a mua hoa.

Inā maluhiluhi o'ī nīnau, e hiki ke hele aku ma na kēia palapala e ho'āʻo ai no loira: Luscher waihoʻoluʻu ho'āʻo a ho'āʻo Sondhi kiʻi. Mai Mai ālai ia ', i hooholo i ka nui o IQ a me ka' oihana nā mea hiki (proforietatsiyu).

I ka lā, i ka Internet, ua nui na kahua, a ho i ho'āʻo no ka anal. Holo nōhie, ka mea e nana nui e like me ka na keiki o ka holoholona hihiu a me kaʻanāʻanā. Young lede, i mai i ka moʻo oʻano'ē nīnau, oia ke launa i ka hoomaopopo ana i loko i ka mea, ua like ia me ka meʻe o kou punahele kiʻiʻoniʻoni i ole Cartoon. Eia mea pono i ka multgeroya ole a me ka hiki ole ke pākahi hana ano a me ka maalea manaʻoʻike ano - ". Maikai" ka mea, he "hewa" a Nolaila, o ka waiwai io o ia mau ho'āʻo ma ka questionable, a mea paha e kālā makepono e kamailio e pili ana i kā lākou mau adverse 'ole ma fragile teenage psyche. Ua mea maikaʻi nō ia e lohe i ka ho'āʻo i ke keiki i ka i hooholo kanaka type. A like kulana home 'ole, a ma ka "ho'āʻo no ka anal keiki kāne."

Aia nō e noho malie hoi lakou poo e hooholo i ka nui o ka pakiko-mea, malama, loaa, pakiko-ʻia,ʻike hoʻokumu a me ka akamai e manaʻo kekahi hoʻonohonoho, a me na mea e ae. Ke paneʻana i ninau mai ia e ho'āʻo ai, nā pōkiʻi e oi paulele i loko o lākou iho, a, ma ka huli, e kokua ia ana maluna o ka pilikia minute o ka ulu ana mai.