Immediacy a me ka spontaneity. He aha ka mea a pehea aole ia hoʻomōhala i loko o oe ia oe iho?

Loa pinepine mākou hoʻohana i ka hua'ōlelo "spontaneity" i loko o kā mākou'ōlelo. He aha ka mea, mai ka manaʻoʻike wahi o Hawaii ma mua o ka mea i ano a me ka typical o kekahi? Ano, ho'āʻo e maopopo i kēia mau hua'ōlelo, like pono i kiʻi e ike ia ma maoli examples. Paha kekahi, e wehe i kēia mea e like ai i loko o lākou iho, a me kā lākou i wae.

Ke mau hoʻomanaʻo o kēia ho'ākāka 'ana,

Noho'na makaainana i ulu hana o ia hoʻi, i ke kanaka i nā mea wale nōʻo ia i makemake i kekahi manawa, a me ka mea hou aku. Kēia mea typical o nā holoholona a me na keiki, i ka ke kumu mākou a pau mahalo a me ka poe a me na mea e ae. Me ka elemakule, ua "oi" a me ka wā pōkole, hana hele, a ma kona wahi i hele mai imua o ka hoʻoneʻe, hoolohe haʻalele 'ana (i' ole kekahi aku ka), a me keia, e like me psychologists, e pepehi iā mākou me kanaka. Ka mea, hoohalike i ka ia'na o spontaneity me ka psychopathology o maʻamau o ke ola, a me ka manawa uaʻaneʻi hoʻohana ole ma ka 'inikua ano, akā, nui ma ka nohona. Ia mea ke kumu ia mea nui i loko o kona oʻo makahiki, "e hoomanao," me oe pono me ke keiki, ka wā i kou manaʻo a me nā hana alakai spontaneity. He aha ua ka loa kūlike loa a me ka pololei 'ia o oe iho a me kou loko honua, hookohu ole iaʻi lakou e lawelawe kumu.

Pehea, a no ke aha la ua uhi pū spontaneity

Ma ka loa opiopio elemakule, ko kakou mau makua, a me ka kindergarten kumu aʻo mai iā māua i ka maikai a me ka mea hewa. Mākou papa aku ke aumoe, malnourished porridge, e kā lākou wahi moe, a e komo i kekahi mau mea i ke ana mai i makemake. Ma keia hihia, ke iki hookuli ana ma ka aoao o ke keiki ikaika hoopaiia, a me keia, ma ka huli, hele aku ai i ka hooulu ana o ka makau. Kēia makaʻu aɃe iā mākou i loko o ka ulu ana o ka mea hookahi kekahi i ka oiaio paha, ka ', aie i ka mea i ka mea, ālai' spontaneity. He aha ka hewa, a me ka ua ma keia aoao ke ole oe e lawe mai i na keiki, ua aoia hoi,ʻaʻole i lōʻihi aku nei kauka. Naʻe, i loko o kēia pukana, he nui na nuances, mai kela mea keia mea o mākou - hapa o ka ke kaiāulu kahi i na rula a me na loina i prevalent, a ina kēlā e hana i kona wā pōkole, mau manao wale,, ke ao nei e hele i hehena. Naʻe, i kēia mea he kūkākūkā philosophical, a me ka manawa mākou e ho'āʻo i ka ia he wahi freer, puka mai ka loaʻa.

Papa haka ai o ke kaiāulu

Manaʻo no ka wā i na bans a pau, a revolve i loko o ka naau o kela kanaka keia kanaka, i ka hana me kona wā kamaliʻi. Ano oe - he piha makua kanaka, nolaila, no ka mea, ia oe e ka maluhia hoʻopoina. e pili ana mākou i mea e hai aku ia hai ina e lawe mākou i kekahi hana, e like me ke keiki mākou i ua hooweliweliia ka makau o ka hilahila, ka hoʻopiʻi no i ua wahi spontaneity. He aha mea kēia ināʻaʻole he pathology, a ua ālai 'iā mākou mai ka noho ana? Me ka loa oiaio, ua hiki ke olelo aku i ka loa kanaka a pau mālama e pili ana i mea e hana ai, a pehea e hoi. I kekahi mea lapuwale i hana 'ia e' oe i loko o ka lehulehu wahi, e huli ma kou pōkole palapala aie, akā, i loko o minuke o nā mea a pau o keia, a me oe i ka nui, e ke hoopoina. No ia mea, hele ke alalai ole, i kapu i ka noho 'ana kamaliʻi, e hoomanao i ke ola wale kekahi manawa.

Aʻo 'ia e noa

? Ac? O spontaneity ma adulthood hiki ke lawe wahi i loko o kekahi mau aoao, a me ka mea hilinaʻi nui ma luna o nā 'ano o kou psyche. Kekahiʻoe iho ma ka heluhelu i ka mea, manaʻo e pili ana i ka nui, e hoike ana ia mea, ua paa ole, a me ka hope e kekahi mea i mua i ole kekahi. Other kanaka paha,ʻaʻole e like ikaika, a me ka mea e noi mai ana 'oihana kōkua ma ka mea e wehe. Ma kekahi hihia, ua pono e hoomanao i ka mea, he spontaneity o ka unconscious, ka spontaneity o ka ike paka i a me ka noho'na makaainana i ulu kolohe. Kēlā me kēia hope manawa ma hope mai o ka keia, nolaila, ka hōʻoiaʻana a pau o ko oukou mau manao, hiki ia ia iho ia ia oe iho, e lilo i kaʻokoʻa kanaka. A, loa paha, a pau i kou ola, e e hoopahaohao, a malia paha e hoʻololi radically.