Ke inferiority eiiieaena a me kona lanakila

Ma ka hapanui o na hihia, he mea he inferiority eiiieaena i loko o ke kakahiaka kamaliʻi a laila poʻe hahai iā i ke kanaka i nā mea a pau i kona ola, e like hoʻi me nā keiki i ka makaʻu, a mea mua he kanaka makua, he pilikia i ke kaua. Inadvertently'ōlelo hua'ōlelo i loko o ka helu wahi o ke keiki i loko o kona alo e pili ana i keʻano, nā mea hiki, ano kāna moʻolelo ka hiki ia i ke kihi ma luna o ka mea a laila, e kūkulu i ka ikaika inferiority eiiieaena. I kekahi manawa, he hookahi hua'ōlelo, akā, i noonoo ai i ke kulana o ka mea hana mau manawa i ka lā a me ka mau no ka oi ma mua o hoʻokahi makahiki? 'Aʻole surprisingly, na kanaka a hiki i kekahi mau mea i maʻa i kēia moku'āina o inferiority, ahiahi, a me ka mea hiki, e waiho na mea a pau e like me ka mea mea,ʻaʻole e kaua aku,ʻaʻole e lilo ana i ka wahi e oia i ma ka minute.

Ma ka kekahi lima, ia mea he inferiority eiiieaena ua hookuke na kanaka, e hiki hou kiʻekiʻe i loko o kou kūlana hana, ka hoʻonaʻauao, ka mea noʻeau, a no laila, ma luna o. He aha la ka mea hewa? Mea kiʻekiʻe i hiki aku i ke kanaka, aole loa ia e e oluolu me ia iho, a nolaila, aole e hiki ia 'ike i ka piha ana o ka pomaikai a me ka oluolu o ka hou e piʻi like a me ka pomaikai. No ke aha la i kēia mau e piʻi like?

Wale kekahi kanaka mea hauʻoli, a māʻona i ko lakou mau ola, a ua alakaʻi ma ko lakou mau makemake. Aia He He mea nui wahi: he mea hiki ole ke ike i ko lakou makemake a me ka hana ma lalo o ka manaʻo koikoi o ka inferiority eiiieaena me kou maoliʻoiaʻiʻo makemake. No ka maopopo i kēia, e ninau aku au ia oe ia oe iho i ka nīnau: "Ināʻaʻole no koʻu inferiority eiiieaen, au e makemake ana e hana ai, e loaʻa ai." O ka holo ana, ia mea hiki, ma keia wahi oe e olelo "Ae", akā, ia mea he biased manao, e like me oe hiki ole hoi i noonoo ai koʻu ola me keia luna '. Pau ka pili ana, a me oe e ole hoohalike, no laila, i ka hopena o ia. Naʻe, i kēia aʻole i manaʻo 'ia ia mea pololei!

Aia o kekahi mea nui wahi - kanaka wale hiki ole ke ike i ka mea, he luna 'a paakiki, e ho'āʻo mai i kaʻae i kēia mea: "I i he inferiority eiiieaena? Nonsense! I hiki ole e! ". Ka mea e wale he mau noa o ka pono a pau, ka mea uie kekahi hapanui hewahewa o kanaka loli ana e ia i ka loli iki ana degere. Pane pono i na kēia mau nīnau:

I makemake koʻu helehelena?
Au manao e e akamai?
I makemake e kamaʻilio me kanaka?
I aloha iaʻu iho?
Au e mahalo mai paha iaʻu iho?

Inā kēia mau nīnau i mai la ia ma ka io, ka mea, 'o ia hoʻi ia he mea he inferiority eiiieaena! Akā, kaʻike o ka pilikia, a me ka 'ike ai i ka mea i koe - 80% o kona olelo hooholo, ina i pau 95%.

I kekahi anu u mea e maopopo ke kumu ua ka inferiority eiiieaen i ke kumu, a me ka lanakila ia e ia i kou pahu hopu. Owai la e mai oe i kau mai ai keia luna, kahi āna i oleʻikeʻia,ʻo ke kumu maoli - ia oe e e aloha oe ia oe iho. ua ikeia keia mea oiaio, e nā kānaka a pau, akā, ke stubbornly hoʻomau e holo alaʻokoʻa konaʻaoʻao. Pehea la e hiki ai oe i hāʻule i loko o ke aloha, ina oe e ole aloha ia oe iho? Owai la ka mea e mahalo mai paha oe ina oe manaʻoʻoe no ka lehulehu o ka manao? O ka poe i ka makemake e kamaʻilio ana me oe, ina oukou i hoowahawaha ai oe ia oe iho, a manaʻoʻoe i ka jerk? Inā 'oe i kou mau ku e ana mai, no ke aha la e kali no ka naauao, a me ke aloha mai o na mea e ae?

K pono a pau o pono e lawe seriously, ka mea hiki ole kāpae'ōlelo a paʻa hoʻokohukohu nei i ka mea e ole nei. Ka mea, o ka mea nana i lawe mai i ke kanaka i ka stress, o ka manao a me ke ahiahi, he pepehi anaʻia iā iho. Me ka hoʻoponopono i ka pilikia, oe wale aggravate ia.

E hoomanao, e - kekahi hanana kanaka! Oe - he mea kupaianaha hanaia, i kou nani Ua kū hoʻokahi a me ka hemolele! Aloha oe - ka mea, Aloha maoli, a me ia mea,ʻaʻole e pili ana i selfishness, a me ka mahalo iaʻu iho me ke kanaka, hiki ke aloha, e hana maikai, a ke haawi makemake i ka 'ē aʻe. Oe - i kekahi apana o ko keia ao, a me ka ia i ua ole me 'oe makemake e ai kupanaha! Oe i kekahi manao - e e hauʻoli!

Eia hoi, e hoomanao i kekahi'ōlelo kaulana: "hana kanaka i ke ala e makemake oe ia lakou, e hana oe." Rephrase ia: "hana oe ia oe iho e like me 'oe makemake e pili ia oe i ka' ē aʻe." A i ka wa e ike i ka likeʻole, ka mea a pau, ao wehe i loko o ke alo o oe!