Mare aloha: pehea e hana me ia me ka mea ke kumukuai?

Uncomplicated mele i na kā puni ka hailona, akā, he mea wale nō ke aloha i kekahi, a me ka mare kanaka, Eia naʻe, o ka mea maoli ano o ke ola kahua o na kaikamahine a me na wahine. "I aloha aku mare ..." I kekahi mau lehelehe ka mea kani a me ka Ka Ho 'Oponopono e hoolilo mai, oiai na mea e ae, ma ka Akä, defies ia mau pili. No ke aha la ia i kekahi kulana home 'ole e ala mai oe? A me ka hou ka mea, kamaʻilioʻana i ka hopena i? Next - manaʻo ma keia kumuhana.

Me ka pono e olelo aku nei ia i loko o ke aloha me ka mare kanaka mea typical no kekahi i kekahi mau 'ano o na wahine e hiki ole. Ua hiki ke hiki mai i ka haumāna ka mea i ike i ke ola, a me ka naauao, ola ka hoao ana wela wahineʻoihana. Haule i loko o ka "whirlpool" a me ka wahine i mea e ke aloha, a me ka poe i loko o ke ola nele Awaits. Wale iʻaneʻi i ka manao, Emotions a me, ka hapanui pinepine, i ka ehaeha mau loa like.

A kaʻina kānāwai he kamailio ana me ka hoa, na makua, a hoi psychologists, ma kela manawa, a laila, e hoʻolohe mai: ". He mare ke kanaka aʻu i aloha" Pēlā ka manaʻo i ka wahine noi no ka'ōlelo aʻo a me ka imi kōkua, no ka mea, i loko o ka hapanui o na hihia ka mea, ua ike ia keia manao pono Pono e kiʻi pohaku uinihepa, o! Akā, inā e ae aku ia oe candidly, paha, kekahi mea,ʻaʻole loa kupono. He nui nā kanaka wale hiki ole ke ola me ka pilialoha manaʻo a me ka eha ana a pau. A, e like me ka hana pono E hoike mai oe, e ka manawa, e olelo aku no ka Haawina Mua O Ka 'ē aʻe "he mare ke kanaka, I aloha" He godsend! O ka manawa, e nana i ka manao a me ka hoopii e pili ana i kā lākou mau pilikia kaʻana like 'ana, a i ole ae i ka elua "halves" e hui ana ma mua!

Akā, he mea i hiki ai kahi o ka mea i defiantly haʻi aku: "Ua aloha au i mareia" -ʻaʻole hiki ke noʻonoʻo pono. No ka laʻana, i ka wa a ka wahine ua mare (paha lōʻihi-makahiki, a ua hana i launa). He oiaio ka paʻakikī! A pau i loaʻa iā ia i ka loa i ka hoomanawanui. A me ka ehaeha i kekahi manawa weliweli.

A ina paha e pono ke kuai i ka manaolana no kekahi mea? Ma ke ola i kekahi mea e hiki mai ana. A, malia paha, e aloha kanaka i ka maikaʻi reconnect, i ka mua kumu o ka eha haalele mua hoapili ia. Akā, pinepine mare kanaka, hoʻomau i kona haku wahine i loko o lākou wela manaʻo,ʻaʻole i loko o ka wikiwiki e haʻalele i kana wahine. A ka mea, ke mau no ka makahiki! He aha? He mea oluolu a me ka kama'āina! A me ka wahine i loko o ke aloha wale koe e hoʻomau e kaʻana i ka hoao ana me ka mea aloha ma luna o ka theme like "I aloha aku mare". A kali ...

'Oiai, ina pinepine Oi ka makemake o ke kanaka, e hele aku ma ka hopena pule i kona makuahine ma pancakes, a ma luna o weekdays i loko o ka wikiwiki, e hele me kana wahine i ka mākeke nui, a laila, paha na mea i ole pela ino i loko o kā lākou' ohana? Ua kuoo ka naauao o ke kulana hiki i kekahi manawa kōkua e noonoo i ka pili a hiki i ka mea o ke aloha. Paha ia i mea e poino a me ka poe pilikia wahine, akā, wale keʻano i mea mau i loko o ka huli o ka 'ano? No laila, no ke aha la kali manawa ma luna o ia?

I ka wa e nana aku i ka poe i mihi nui iho la (a me ka haaheo) I mai la kela: "Ua aloha au i mareia" - manaʻo e pili ana, i na wahi, i hiki i ka poe liilii, e like me ka hiki. Ua, e hoʻoponopono i ia painlessly kokoke hiki ole i! A me ka'ōlelo aʻo, e haawi aku - he thankless hana! Ka mea wale nō'ōlelo aʻo i, eʻoiaʻiʻo nō, e pili - mai i ho'āʻo i ka idealize i ke aloha, a me ka kuli pepeiao i ka manao o ka hoahanau.