Pehea e loaʻa mai ia nana i hahao i ke kilokilo?

Man o ka enemi. Keia rula i lōʻihi Ua apau o loko o ko kakou mau ola. Ka hakakā a me ka Competition alakaiʻaʻole e hele ma kahi mākou makemake. Ma kahi o ka noho maikaʻiʻana o ke kaiāulu mākou i kekahi ke kaiāulu i loko i nāʻenemi oi ma mua o hoa. People i no laila, inaina aku kekahi i kekahi, no ka mea, o ka paipai 'ana i ka hana, he maikaʻi kaʻa, he nani kona mau wahine, a no laila, ka mea i makemake e hele i ka nui ka loa, e hoopai aku i ka competitor. Ma ke ala ana i ka hoʻohana 'ana iʻeleʻele kilokilo a pau.

ole oe i manaoio mai i ka kilokilo, akā, e loaʻa, e hele mai i ka hua'ōlelo a me nā kūʻiʻo e hooiaio aku ai i psychologists. Noke ikehu, ua hōʻike hewa e hele mai ana, mai ke kanaka e hiki ke lawe maiʻoe i loko o mea pilikia. Ua Ua Ua kapaʻia kēia hopena palaho. A ina oe e ole eʻike nōʻo ia i kou enemi malu, loa paakiki, e hooki aku i ka hopena, e e. Ia ka leo o na kanaka no ke aha la ka mea iʻalo i ka pilikia, e pili ana e pili ana pehea e loaʻa mai ia nana i hahao i ke kilokilo.

Inā e hoʻoholo e wehe i ka pōʻino ma luna o lākou iho, e ike mākou i kekahi mau 'pane i ka ninau ana i ka loaʻa mai ia nana i hahao i ke kilokilo, ' aʻole i nei. Oe Pono e hoakaka i kēia intuitively no ka nalu o ka io ikehu e hele mai, mai ke kanaka. Ua mea, heʻoiaʻiʻo, kekahi o ka kūloko kaiapuni. Inā mākou i ka hoʻoholo 'ia' aʻole i huli mai, oe e loaʻa, e hoʻohana i ka loa ma ka pono a Agena i hele mai ia mai me ke akamai o ke kahiko puke.

I ka hewa ua ike, hoike ana i ka loa o ka hewa. Nō hoʻi, he kanaka hou i ka poino oe e literally e uhaʻi aku i loko o kou hale e like me ka wa i kou hoʻomaka e pili i kekahi aiiay ana. Ia oe āu e haʻohaʻo ai, pehea e loaʻa mai ia nana i hahao i ke kilokilo, i kouʻenemi imi e ike ina paha oe i wehe 'ia kona hopena maikaʻi' ole paha,ʻaʻole. Pela hoi, aole ina ka poho ua unintentional, kanaka nō instinctively e o Laielohelohe ia oe, a me kekahi manawa loa intrusive.

Na Huaolelo hana aneane he haneri pakeneka. Oe wale Pono e paa rituals e wehe i poino, a hoʻi hoouna aku i ke kino o na ikaika e kaua aku, a kali mudslinger eʻaʻole hiki iāʻoe i loko o kanaka. Penei, ina e pilikia 'ole e hele ana i ka mea hoʻomaka kilo a me na kanaka a pau no ko ianei manao oe maʻi ma luna o ka subconscious' ilikai, ke ninau ua, pehea la oe i nana i ka poino, Ua ike loa wale no oe. Akā, inā eʻalo oe me ka 'oihanaʻeleʻele kilo,ʻo ia nō e ao, a maiʻaʻole pono e hele mai e kipa' oe ma luna o lākou iho.

Ma keia hihia, e ke ho'āʻo e kapa aku ia ia me ke kōkua o ke kilokilo rituals. Aia i kekahi mau kahiko mauʻaoʻao, a, nae, e noi mai ana i kekahi mau aʻo. Na easiest ala - e hamare i kui i loko o ka paepae puka o ka hale, a kapa aku i ka enemi e hele mai ia oe i na la ekolu. Eia naʻe, e paʻi pū i ka 'oihana kilo mea ole loa ai kupono, a ma keia ina ia mea maikaʻi, e kōkua imi mai kekahi' oihana, no laila, lawe aʻelaʻo ia i kekahi colleague e hoʻomaʻemaʻe i ka wai.

Eia hoi, ina oe anei hana wale mai i loaʻa i nā pane a me ka mai i ike pehea e ho oholo mea nāna i waiho i ka hua'ōlelo, nui ka hoʻokō mau aoao, e ho'āʻo koho koke ihola nō i mahuahua. Maule i ka mahuahua, a mālie ninini ia i loko o ka pola o ka wai, haʻi ana hoʻi, i kēia mau'ōlelo: "Ka nahaehae ua nininiia, ninini mai i ka enemi." Na kūponoʻano, e hai aku ia oe, ma ka liʻiliʻi loa hapalua detractors. A i loko o kekahi hihia oe e hiki e hiki i ke hoʻoponopono i ka maka o kaʻenemi.

E ho'āʻo i ka? Aaei kiʻina hana oe paha e e hiki ke loaʻa i ka attacker, akā, me ka mea nui wale nō, i ka pane moe i loko o kou subconscious. Oe paha Ua koko, a me ka meaʻimi i ka hewa, e like me ia no ka mea alakaʻi o ke poho e e he nui loa e inaina i ka ua kanaka la. Oia kekahi kanaka pono pono e loaʻa. O ka poe e olelo aku i ka hana me ka ana i ka loaʻa mai ia nana i hahao i ke kilokilo, hewa, hewa. E hana i pono hoopai. Akā, e ike i kaʻenemi i loko o ka maka - ka mua ka anu u ma ke alanui a hiki i ka lanakila. No laila, mai nānā i ka stab i loko o ka hope!