Ua loaʻa kaʻike kamepiula ke aloha?

Holomua aʻole e ku malie oukou, a me ka manawa a me ka neʻe aloha mai ike maopopo i kaʻike kamepiula a puni. Ma kahi o ka, e hele aku i nā wahi ulu lāʻau, haleʻaina, sportploshadki paha i loko o nā hale waihona puke, wa opiopio hola e noho ana ma ka lolouila, pü ma kaʻauʻau kai lumi, Mail, Usenet a me ka pilina latike. 'Aʻole surprisingly, neʻe aloha kekahi i ka Internet, a me ia - a me ke aloha.

ʻike kamepiula ke aloha - keia mea he luawai-hookupaa manaʻo. Akaka i na kanaka a pau - keia mea aloha, kūkuluʻia ma luna o ka Internet, he aloha i hoomaka i ka wa a na kanaka i ike ai i kekahi i kekahi wale nō i loko o ke kiʻi. Akā, e mākou nō e hala ole: ka mea,ʻaʻoheʻike kamepiula ke aloha,ʻike kamepiula kamailio nei. A me ke aloha - ka manawa maoli manaʻo. Ua lawe mai ka olioli a me kaʻeha, puʻe wale akula kēlā e maliu oluolu a me ko mākou hopohopo. I ka Ia manawa, psychologists ike iʻike kamepiula aloha - ia mea kalele iho ma luna o ke kanaka me ka mea a oukou e ike pü ma ka Internet. I ka maoli ola, e hiki loa hālāwai,ʻaʻole naʻe me ka loka mea e hookomo ana i kaʻauʻau kai me ia, ua nui maoli.

Ka nele o kaʻike kamepiula ke aloha i ia mea kākaʻikahi lilo he aku o ka lanakila. Ka mea ka i ana ia me ke kanaka ma palapala wale, ua hana i ke kiʻi i ua makemake makou. A me ke kanaka "ma hope o ka kanaka hoʻoponopono" mea no hoi i oiaio. Ia mea,ʻaʻole e pono ia ia Ka e moe ana ia oe, e like ana ia i manao oe e makemake, a Radio he kūlana, wahi ia ia iho ia mau hiʻona i loko o ka lanakila mea ole. Ma ka Internet, ua hiki manaʻo no ka makou i kekahi moʻolelo, i kekahi kiʻi - a no lākou iho, a no ka mea kanaka me ka mea a mākou e hoʻopili like.

ʻO wai ka mea ma kamepiula e 'ike i kaʻike kamepiula ke aloha?

E ka wale hoakaka:ʻike kamepiula ka launa pū, aʻike kamepiula aloha - ka mea,ʻaʻole i ka mea hookahi. Kela a me keia makahiki i loko o ko kakou aina, he lālā hua helu o ka poʻe i hui ma ka Internet - i loko o ka lawelawe latike, Usenet, a hiki i ka pela hanaia no keia ka launa pū ioauoa. Ma ka US, ua lilo ka kūmau ia ke aloha, a me ka hoʻowahāwahā i ka nui io nāʻana, haawi maikaʻi hopena. Na koa ka launa pū mai definite hua hoʻohui. Ka mea, e pono no ka poʻe i, ma muli o ia kekahi kumu kākaʻikahi hele lehulehu wahi, a mea e hiki ke loaʻa i ke kokoolua i loko o ka pā kaiapili. No ka poe i hele mai e noho ma ka hou wahi, no ka poe a pau ke koikoi wā halawai ana ma ka maoli ola. Ka hapa nui o ia wale kaʻohiʻana i ia iho objectively pono no kekahi mau o ka 'Oihana. Aia nā poʻe iʻike piʻi i ka ike maopopo o ka pono a pau o aie ai i kekahi o ko lākou mau ano. No ka laʻana, he loa akamai a me ka hana hoihoi kaikamahine 'Aʻohe manao e kiʻi ike no o kona unsightly helehelena,ʻaʻole hiki ho'āʻo i ka Loiloi i kona pā honua. A i 'ole, ma ka mea ku ole, i loko o ka maikai loa kaikamahine,ʻo wale nō ke nānā aku, aʻaʻole kekahi kanaka, aole ia i nana ole i kona manao, a tālena. I na kanaka, pilikia i loa pinepine me ke kala hou pili. No hoi, e like me ka 'ikepili helu hōʻike, ka hapanui o lākou i koe, ma mua o kaʻole. I Internet mau hoa i loko o ke ola anoʻalo me ka wahine ka hoʻoponopono-panee, a hoʻoholo i ia i nele i kekahi mea e mahalo aku ia ia me he kanaka,ʻaʻole he eke o ke kala.

A wale heʻuʻuku pakeneka o ka poʻe hiki ke 'ike i kaʻike kamepiula aloha. Mau mea na kanaka no ka mea a ka meaʻike kamepiula ola ke puku i ka oiaio. Ka mea, i ole kumu hoʻopaipai ma ka maoli ola, a me ka mea, ua nui pinepine wale. Ka nele o ka 'ōlelo alakai aku ia lakou i ka Internet, ma ke kamaʻilio ma ka nui loa. A ina o ka nele o ke kamailio ana o ka ua pu aku la keia ma ka pakiko-ka hopohopo a me ka pono a pau o (a me ka hapanui pinepine i ka hihia), a laila, i kaʻike kamepiula aloha e no ia i ka wale nō e hiki i kekahi. A me ka oiaio, i ka wa pü ma luna o ka Internet e mai i ke kahaha pehea ia mea hiki, e ho'āʻo i kona aloha, a me ka maikaʻi hoike ana'ku o ke aloha - lawa e kākau e pili ana i ia, e haawi mai i kaʻike kamepiula pua a me ka naau.

ʻike kamepiula ke aloha ka mea, no ka mea, ke kumu 'ino. ʻAʻohe mea hiki pono ma mua o pāʻani lawa, holoiʻia i kona pili ana me ka ka launa pū paena a nohona pukapuka, a me ke kanaka nana i nākiʻi iāʻoe, anapu koke haʻalele wale a me ka heartbroken, me hiki ole pono e kamailio i ka mea o kona aloha. Akā, ua "e hookani" i loko o ka mea ulana pukapuka, he nui loa.

Aia ka pilikia i kekahi. Ina no ka manao e ae, o ka hoʻololi i ike maopopo no ia kanaka, ua paakiki. Kēia mea,ʻaʻole kahaha ko oukou naau, mai nā i eʻuwao me kou illusions. A no laila, he nui o lakou, aole loa hālāwai, hoopakela aku e malama i ko lakou mau moe ...