ʻEhiku mau manao i ekolu, e haʻalele i ka unloved hana

I ka pū waikaua kani. Oe me ka makemake ole noho iho ilalo ma ka moe, a haha aku e like pōhaku puna slab moe ma luna o kou mau poohiwi. Mawaho o ka puka makani - uhai malū la (ua makemake ua ua maikaʻi). Ma kahi o ke kakahiaka o ka makau ole - he kaua o ka maʻi apathy.

Ke kumu mea i ka maʻi, aʻaʻole ma ka pilikia. E pono i makemake e, e hele i ka hana. E puʻe wale maiʻoe iāʻoe iho, e holoi, heleʻia, ai aina kakahiaka, a hiki ma ka "i makemake e, e" komo i loko o ke kaʻa (kaʻa 'ohua, kaʻa'ōhua ma lalo iho) a hele aku i ka inaina oihana (' Oihana, keʻena hoʻokolohua) No ka mea, e pono e noho somehow.

E waiho kākou i ka pilikia o pathological dependency. Oe nō he maʻamau kanaka. Oe wale mai i makemake i kou hana, a me ka mea e hana,ʻaʻoleʻoe iʻike.

Ka hopena Ua maopopo - e papa a pau koke, e nana aku i kekahi hana, kahi au e e hiki ia e hoʻomaopopo i ke kohu kūpono hana, na bosses e mahalo, a me ka hui - a hiki i ke akamai.

Akā, weliweli, e, pehea weliweli. Ka nele i. Where hiki au loaʻa kekahi 'oihana? A me ka mea hiki au hana ai? A me ka mea nele mai iaʻu, au i ai i na makahiki? He aha ina he mea hiki loa? Ninaninau 'ana i miliona. A ma laila nō i hoʻohiki.

A oe e ku ana i ka crossroads - haʻalele makaʻu e noho ma laila nō i koa. A alakaʻi mua e hoike ana e poino ai lakou i ka hooko somehow hana nā hoapili e hoomaka ana i ka wawa hewa loa gloomy hoa. A me 'oe hiki ole loaʻa maloko kākoʻo i loko o lākou iho, e mobilize a me ke ku i ka lepo, holo me ka mea pono.

Ua oki otdyshites. Ae oe ia oe iho, e hoʻonānea (lawe manawa aku, e hoʻololi i ke kulana, e noho kekahi).

Maopopo i ke kumu no kona "allergy" i ka hana. Akā, hookahi oe e hele mai iʻaneʻi (ole paha,ʻaʻole?) Aha i loli?

E hoʻohana i ka Classic iaoia: E ho oka awale ma lalo o ka pepa o ka pepa i nā puʻuʻelua, hoʻokahi, helu i ka pono o ka hana, i ka lua - Con.

O ka hana ana, ma kekahi mea kaupaona pono e waiho:

• ka pilina paʻa makahiki, e leie aku paʻa wahi;

• i ke kūlana o ka hana kanaka i mea nui;

• ka ninau a puni, (dute, koi, i hoʻolilo 'ia, etc.)

  akā,:

• ka nele o ka hoihoi i loko o nā kumu hai aku i ka mea formally, e loli ai i kona mea e like ai (e loaa ana kanaka - e ae mai oe, mai hana);

• no ka nele o ka Initiative e e he backlash'ōnaehana;

• pau ana ka ulu ana ka 'oihana a me ka' oihana;

• 'oihana inadequacy hana i mea na'ōhumu mai, ulu ka inferiority eiiieaen, loa e ku e ia i ke kāʻei kua o ka pili a me ka holomua nā hoapili;

• E like me ka rula, he kahua ano hoomainoino ma ka haʻahaʻa uku - ia i kāʻili aʻe i kā ways, ho'ēmi i kā ka hoolaa ana;

• pilikia ma ka hana e ala ola pilikia i;

• 'ōhumu mai ai me ka hana ana o ka hopena maikaʻi uaʻana o ke kai ohana ola - honua collapses ...

Ka piha kūpono o ka maopopo keakea. Lawe malama ana i kela la i keia berena, ua pinepine luku aku lakou ia lakou iho e like me ke kanaka.

Aku o ka lanakila puʻe wale akula kēlā e kū ma luna o ka honua, e manaʻo i ka poo, aʻaʻole e wikiwiki hana. Oluolu i ka lilo, a me ka hana. E huli i ka hou (e aʻo i ka hou aoao, waiwai, kaulana, e hoʻomaopopo ai i ka aloha moe) mea e maʻalahi.

Ma hope o nā mea a pau, a hiki i ka loaʻino, a me ka monotonous uninteresting hana i kela la i kekahi e ka hōʻike. No ka mea, ua miliona o kanaka - ke ola dictates kona mau lula. Akā, no ka mea unloved hana i unbearable ordeal, e alakai ana i ka hewa.

Oe makemake e noho i ka olinolino a me ka hoihoi ', hana i ka mea like?

E huli i ka "I makemake" e "I hiki iaʻu ke hana ia, lanakila osvoyu, e lanakila, a no laila, ma luna o" haʻalele i ka unloved hana i na mea e ae - no ka poe makemake ia. Loaa a me oe, a me ka hana.