A mau nui kōkua paha e pili ana pehea e manaoio i ka lakou iho

Pakiko-hilinai - nui i ke keʻena o kekahi mau mea e hanaʻi. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, ina o ka mālama '-ea i ka pilikia mea unsolvable, laila, lanakila ia anei ka pilikia. Maopopo koʻu manao i kanaka - pakiko-lawa a me ka holomua. Ka mea, e nui hana, a ua hiki ke loaʻa ai nui. Low ka hoʻoponopono-ʻia ua hana, IeAUPIIe, IAa IO i ka wa kamalii, a me ka mea hilinaʻi nui, mua o nā mea a pau, mai 'ia i ke keiki a me ka ka reactions like me kona i ka pomaikai a me ka ole. Eia naʻe, e manaoio i ka lakou hiki e ana o kekahi mau makahiki, a me ke ola ke hoʻololi me ka nui loa no ka maikaʻi.

Keʻanuʻu mua ka hiki pono o ka hai aku i na mea he nui pilikia. A psychologist 'ana i mālama i nā kēia hoʻokolohua. Haumāna mai ka ia papa i maheleia i mau subgroups. I ka Ia manawa i loko o kela a me keia o ia mākou, ua nawaliwali, a me na keiki ikaika. Ka mea i noi i ka ia pilikia e hoʻoponopono. Ma keia hihia, ua haʻiʻia kekahi pūʻulu ia ia ka loa paʻakikī i ka hana, a me ka 'ē aʻe - i hiki ke lawelawe i ka hope. E like me ka hopena, na keiki ka mea i hōʻike 'ia wale i ka' oihana, hana ia aneane pau loa. Kekahi hui me ia, i pii ole mai. Kēia kumu maopopo e hōʻike mai ana nui ia mea ia e paulele ai oe ia oe iho a me kou nā mea hiki.

E ole hoohalike oe ia oe iho i nā kanaka, o ka oi aku,ʻaʻole i loko o lākou ka lokomaikaʻiʻia mai. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, o kela mea keia mea kū hoʻokahi. A ina kekahi mea hiki ke hoʻoponopono i ka pilikia, ka mea, 'aʻole i manaʻo i ka mea hiki ole ke hoʻolimalima hale a me oe.

ʻO kekahi mea nui wahi o na koi ana o psychologists e pili ana pehea e manaoio i ka lakou iho - mea e hoomanao i ko lakou hala e piʻi like a me ka holomua ka hoao ana. No laila, ina e pono ia e nui ka papahana, mākou e ole manaʻo i hiki ole oe lawelawe. Ua mea maikaʻi ke kumu āna i waiho ia ia oe, no ka mea, a laila, loa paha, ke Aupuni i pinepine iʻoiaʻiʻo ia oe, ua ku pono no ia paulele i ka manaʻo.

No ka hoʻoikaika 'ana i ka hoʻoponopono-ʻia pono e hana ma luna o kā lākou mau nawaliwali. No laila, inā e mea e loaa i kekahi mea i mua i lalo ikaika ole, e kiʻi ikaika a me ka manaoio i ka pomaikai o kekahi mau kaʻakālai hou. Ua hoʻonui i ka nui o nā koi koina, e like me ka manaoio i ka lakou iho, e kōkua i kekahi mea i i kona hiʻona.

Eia naʻe, i hoʻokō i ia lakou iho kekahi mnoe i pono, e like me ka hoʻokō 'ole' makemake ke olonā wāwae mea i hilinaʻi ai. He mea pono e ho'āʻo i ka realistically Loiloi i ko lakou ikaika. No laila, mai kuhi ia oe ke lilo i millionaire i loko o ka mau o ka mahina, ina oe hulina hana me ka uuku uku ma ka oihana. Ke kākoʻo pāʻoihana o na pilikia Pono e eʻoiaʻiʻo, e hea aku, a he pono ole ke aloha.

I waena o nā kōkua paha e pili ana pehea e manaoio ai ia oe iho, e pono nō ia e lohe i ka kēia: He mea nui iʻae, a koho i mea e makemake. Au e e paipai aku he nui loa e e alakaiia'ku e na mea e ae. Ike ia oe ke hana hou ma mua o kou manaʻo, no ka laʻana, e Makuakane me ka nui a me ke kuleana o hana, e like me i ka pili nā mākau a me ka ike, e i i noi ia ma ka hana. Mai Mai loaa kaʻoi aku ka hilinai aku maluna o kekahi o ka manao. Ke kanaka - ka nohona ia, no laila, i ka heluia, o ka mea e ae no kana mau hana, a me ka hana o kēlā me kēia i loko o kekahi alanui nui. Eia naʻe, he nui loa e kaukaʻi ma ka manao o kekahi poe - keia hana mau ke olonā wāwae paulele ma ko lakou ikaika, me he disparaging loiloi (hiki biased) mea e loli i ke pakiko-ʻia mea,ʻaʻole i ka pono.

Mua manaoio oe i loko o oe, e pono pololei 'ia o kau lākou nā makakoho a me nā loina. He mea hiki ole ia ia i ka mea maikaʻi i nā mea a pau, no laila ia mea e pono ai ka mea o ka haumāna keia e kahińuli, a me ua mea nui loa i ka manawa. I kona nā wahi e pono e i ka holomua a me ka maikaʻi kanaka, ka poe i hoopiiia no me kā lākou ikehu a me ka hōʻike i ka maikaʻi laʻana.

I loko nō o ka mea i stress mea he integral hapa o ko makou mau ola, ka mea hiki ole wale alakai lakou ma pakiko-ʻia, akā, no hoi a hiki i ke ko mākou hopohopo hālāwai hope, pela no oe e pale aku ia lakou. Haʻi'ōlelo hana a pehea e manaoio ma o lakou iho, He auditory aʻo. E kamailio pu ana oe ia oe iho i kela la, "Ae au E hiki anei i", he kanaka i loko o ka manawa maoli hoʻomaka i manaoio ma kana mau olelo.